It is becoming increasingly common for people to get married on dating apps. However, using a dating app can also be a frustrating experience. Below are some tips to help you find a wife on dating apps.
Be thoughtful about the qualities of your life partner.
Draw from your previous relationships (if possible) and look out for qualities you truly care about in a life partner. Try to focus more on personality than looks. The most beautiful profile pic won’t lead to anything meaningful if you can’t envision a future with that person. Maybe you want to be a dad some day, which means you will want someone who will be a good mom.
Be focused but flexible.
People on dating apps may not necessarily have marriage in mind, but many will settle down if they meet the right person. Be up front about looking for a serious relationship, but don’t be too quick to turn someone down just because he or she isn’t explicitly looking to get married.
Tailor your profile to attract the kind of person you’d want to marry.
Generally, you want to look mature and put together. That means you should probably refrain from posting pictures of going crazy at that night club from years ago. While you can show off your body, don’t make it the focal point. You can look sexy, but that shouldn’t be your only look.
Don’t let failure discourage you.
Dating apps have a notoriously low hit rate. If someone you fancied turns you down, think of it as that person’s loss and move on. After all, you only need to find one!
Gauge where they are in their lives.
The best chemistry in the world will not save a relationship that has no future because one side just isn’t ready for long term commitment. Through conversation, try to figure out where they are in their journey to find someone. Move on if they are not looking for something serious.
Dial up the sincerity.
Try to have meaningful conversations as quickly as possible. You are on a journey to find your life partner, so be curious about your match’s personality and quirks and try to get to truly know them. However, don’t jump the gun! Keep in mind that texting is usually not the best medium for sincere conversations, so you may need to open with frivolous banter in order to establish chemistry. Get your foot in the door and arrange a meet up as soon as possible. Once you meet them in person, be sincere about who you are. If they reject you for being too sincere, then they weren’t looking for a long term relationship to begin with.
It may be daunting trying to find a wife on dating apps. However, it can be one of the most rewarding, so put in the effort and try the strategies above!